:53:01
and then they get married.
:53:03
Is this my mother talking?
:53:06
Well, your daughter says no!
:53:08
I've lived with men,
and didn't marry them.
:53:12
Now, I want to get married.
:53:14
To get a man to marry me,
I mustn't sleep with him.
:53:19
I want to be respected,
to be idolized by my husband.
:53:23
For that, he must respect me.
:53:27
That's how people talked
a hundred years ago.
:53:30
A hundred years ago,
women were idolized.
:53:34
When they turned men down,
:53:36
it wasn't on moral
or religious grounds,
:53:41
but out of instinct.
:53:43
An instinct that tells the female
:53:46
to resist the male
so that he'll desire her.
:53:51
I haven't lost that instinct,
even if others have.
:53:56
I've given in to too many men.
:53:59
That's all over now.
:54:01
You're going
from one extreme to another.
:54:04
Don't worry.
:54:09
I'll only marry him
if I'm in love with him.
:54:13
And probably only
if we've shared that love.
:54:17
But it must be true love.
:54:19
I think that
:54:21
falling into his arms
isn't the answer.
:54:24
I want him to desire me,
:54:27
to suffer.
:54:29
Is that really necessary?
:54:31
Yes...
:54:33
Or he'll look down on me.
:54:35
That's how I am,
men put me on a pedestal,
:54:37
but once I give in,
I'm less than nothing.
:54:40
I'm sick of being loved
for my ass, that's all.
:54:44
Am I wrong?
:54:46
Of course not.
:54:48
I was broken-hearted
:54:51
to see you waste your time
with a married man.
:54:54
I hope with this one it's mutual.
:54:58
I'm telling you, it is.