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How you feel about family
is a complicated thing.
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Especially with an older brother.
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Deep down, you'll always love him.
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But you can forget that you love him.
You can hurt them, they can hurt you.
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That's not just because you're young.
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You want to know the real
reason why I'm here?
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Sure.
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I came to hear my granddaughter sing.
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I can't come hear her tonight.
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You have plans?
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No.
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I'm not welcome.
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At church?
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You're always welcome at church.
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I'm not welcome with my son.
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Years back, before you and your family
moved on the block...
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...I had an argument with my son.
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How old is he?
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He's grown up.
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We lost our tempers, and I said
I didn't care to see him anymore.
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He said the same, and we haven't
spoken to each other since.
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If you miss him,
why don't you call him?
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I'm afraid if I call,
he won't talk to me.
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How do you know?
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I don't know.
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I'm just afraid.
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No offense, but aren't you
a little old to be afraid?
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You can be old for a lot of things.
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- You're never too old to be afraid.
- That's true.
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I was afraid of our basement.
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It's dark. There's weird stuff
down there, and it smells funny.
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That sort of thing.
It's bothered me for years.
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Basements are like that.
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I made myself go down
to do some laundry...
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...and I found out it's not so bad.
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I worried about it, but if you
turn on the lights, it's no big deal.
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What's your point?
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My point is,
you should call your son.
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- What if he won't talk to me?
- At least you'll know.
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Then you could stop worrying about it.
You won't have to be afraid anymore.
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No matter how mad I was, I'd talk to
Dad. Especially around the holidays.