:30:02
l'm tired of being corrected
and criticized.
:30:05
That's all l ever did with Sally.
:30:08
And your mother is not in town.
She's in Florida.
:30:12
l think no matter how hard we worked,
the marriage wouldn't have lasted.
:30:17
How long were you and Judy married?
:30:21
Five years.
:30:23
-Why did you split up?
-l thought l wanted out.
:30:26
l felt l had just run out of gas.
:30:30
But as l look back, l think
it was Judy who wanted out.
:30:34
So she left you?
:30:36
No, she'd never--
That's not her style.
:30:40
Don't let Judy fool you. She's
what l call passive-aggressive.
:30:45
Everything is,
'' Poor me, give me a break.''
:30:48
But she gets what she wants.
:30:51
l remember when she met her
current husband, Gabe Roth.
:30:55
My husband and daughter are staying...
:30:57
...but l'm leaving tomorrow.
l have to work.
:31:01
-Let me give you a lift.
-No, don't be silly.
:31:05
-Why go on the train?
-lt's fine.
:31:08
-Would you like something to eat?
-Me? No. l'll get you something.
:31:13
-l was just on my way.
-Don't be silly.
:31:16
-Pasta? Anything else?
-That's fine.
:31:19
-l can easily get a cab.
-Why should you?
:31:22
See? He winds up getting the food.
:31:25
He changes his schedule,
drives her home.
:31:28
And all the time it's,
''No, I'll be okay. Don't help me. ''
:31:33
What he doesn't say is that for
the last two years of our marriage...
:31:38
...he was virtually impotent,
when it came to me.
:31:42
He was just raging because l didn't
turn out to be what he thought--
:31:46
He thought l'd be one thing.
His mother, to be exact.
:31:50
And l couldn't take the fact that
he was unromantic in every way.
:31:55
He'd give you an appliance
for your birthday.
:31:59
l never got her a Melior coffeemaker
for a birthday present.