1:37:01
l've learned, anyway, that love is...
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...not about passion and
romance necessarily.
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lt's also about companionship and...
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...it's like a buffer against
loneliness, l think.
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That stuff is important.
Somebody to grow old with.
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What kills most people is
unreal expectations.
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What about things that
can't be talked about?
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Like sexual problems, for instance.
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-Unresolved.
-Unresolved?
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Well, there's some things you
can't solve and then...
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...you have to live with it.
1:37:45
You construct some
kind of patchwork thing.
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-But sometimes they flare up.
-They do, and when it happens...
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...it gets tough when that happens.
1:37:57
You learn to deal with it and then
push it under the rug.
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And it works. That's the weird thing.
lt's not bad.
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You can't force yourself to
conform to some abstract...
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...vision of love, or...
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...you know, marriage.
Every situation's different.
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Whatever works is the deal.
1:38:19
Ours is just one way.
1:38:21
lt's funny. Last year when
we were at Gabe and Judy's...
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...and we announced so flippantly
we were splitting....
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-l wasn't that confident.
-l wasn't either.
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l remember thinking
they were so lucky.
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They had such a great marriage.
1:38:39
lt's ironic that we're
together and they aren't.
1:38:43
-Yeah.
-Weird.
1:38:46
l had a romantic moment...
1:38:48
...with Rain at her
21 st birthday party...
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...and l could feel
the old pull coming back.
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The old attraction coming back.
Feelings I'd had...