:49:02
You drag us to listen to you
go on about this or that...
:49:05
or we don't express
ourselves very well.
:49:07
We don't say what we mean,
don't we?
:49:10
We do say what we mean...
:49:11
and you say
"I don't understand you" and...
:49:13
Consult the report?
You see?
:49:15
Do you see what I'm saying?
:49:17
Can't you tell me
in your own words?
:49:19
Those are my own words.
:49:23
"He told me that if
I would stay alone with him...
:49:25
"in his office, he would
change my grade to an "A."
:49:28
What have I done to you?
:49:30
Oh, my God!
Are you so hurt?
:49:32
What I feel is irrelevant.
:49:34
Do you know I tried to help you?
:49:36
What I know I have reported.
:49:37
I would like to help you now,
before this escalates.
:49:40
I don't need your help.
:49:41
I don't need anything
that you have.
:49:42
- I feel...
- I don't care what you feel.
:49:46
You can't do that anymore.
You do not have the power.
:49:48
Did you misuse it?
Someone did.
:49:50
Are you part of that group?
:49:52
Yes, you are.
You've done these things.
:49:53
And to say, "Excuse me."
:49:55
And to say, "Let me help
you with your problem..."
:49:58
Yes, I understand.
:50:00
You're hurt. You're angry.
:50:02
I think your anger
is betraying you...
:50:04
down a path
which helps no one.
:50:07
I don't care what you think.
:50:08
You don't?
But you talk of rights.
:50:11
Don't you see?
I have rights, too.
:50:14
I have a house,
part of the real world...
:50:16
and the tenure committee.
Good men and true.
:50:19
- Professor...
- Please.
:50:21
Also part of that world.
You understand?
:50:24
This is my life.
I'm not a boogie man.
:50:26
I don't stand for something...
:50:28
Professor,
I came here as a favor...
:50:31
at your personal request.
:50:32
Perhaps I should not
have done so...
:50:33
but I did on my behalf
and on behalf of my group.
:50:37
And you speak of
the tenure committee...
:50:38
one of whose members
is a woman...
:50:40
and though you might
call it good fun...
:50:42
or an historical phrase
or an oversight...
:50:45
to refer to the committee
as good men and true...
:50:48
it is a demeaning remark.
:50:50
It is a sexist remark...
:50:52
and to overlook it is
to countenance continuation...
:50:55
of that method of thought.
:50:56
- It's a remark...
- Oh, come on!
:50:59
Come on! Sufficient
to deprive a family...