1:43:01
Do you think that what happened with us
just happens to anyone?
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What we feel for each other?
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We're hardly...
1:43:12
...hardly 2 separate people now.
1:43:17
Some people search all their life
and never find this.
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Others don't even think it exists.
1:43:24
You're going to tell me....
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You're going to tell me this
is the right thing to do? Giving it up?
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We are the choices
that we have made, Robert.
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You don't understand.
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Don't you see?
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Nobody understands when
a woman makes a choice...
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...to marry and have children...
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...in one way, her life begins,
but in another way, it stops.
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You build a life of details...
1:44:07
...and you just stop
and stay steady...
1:44:11
...so that your children can move.
And when they leave...
1:44:14
...they take your life of details
with them.
1:44:18
You're expected to move on,
but you don't remember what moved you...
1:44:23
...because no one's asked you
in so long, not even yourself.
1:44:31
But you never think....
1:44:34
You never think love like this
will happen to you.
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But now that you have it...?
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Now I want to keep it forever.
1:44:46
I want to love you the way I do now
for the rest of my life...
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...but if we leave...
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...we lose it.
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And I can't make
an entire life disappear...