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My mother could be rich.
She could be rich and smart.
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Or she could be rich and stupid.
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On the other hand, she could be
just poor and good-hearted.
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Or she could be poor and mean.
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I mean, I-I have no idea
what she's like. It's--
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And there's my father, right?
I look at guys on the street every day--
:00:42
regular guys
walking down the street.
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And depending on my mood, I imagine
that any one of them could be my father.
:00:47
This guy.
How about this guy?
:00:50
Hi, Dad.
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Then I have to picture
these two people having sex.
:00:56
Okay, maybe they're not together now.
But at least 30 years ago...
:00:58
they had to hook up
in order to have me, right?
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Mix and match, mix and match,
all these people together.
:01:05
I can't help feeling...
:01:07
that if I'd been raised
by at least one of my real parents...
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I wouldn't be
such a nervous person, you know?
:01:14
I might be living a completely different
life in a totally different city.
:01:18
I could be married to a totally
different person with a different job.
:01:21
I mean, how do I know? I don't.
Anything's possible.
:01:27
Well, the mystery of your
unknown self is about to unfold.
:01:31
Your mother lives
in San Diego, California.
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Her name is Valerie Swaney.
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Valerie Swaney?
:01:44
I told you it wouldn't take long.
:01:46
Can we arrange a meeting soon?
:01:49
How's, um--
How's next month?
:01:51
No, no. I told Nancy I'd do it sooner.
I-I've been driving her crazy.
:01:54
Because you can't name your son?
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I've just been distracted and tense
ever since the baby was born.
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- A little unsteady?
- Preoccupied.