1:04:00
I've had plenty of time
to think about it.
1:04:02
And what I've come up with
is really simple.
1:04:07
I came to this
on my own terms.
1:04:11
You know, I didn't just
heed what I was taught:
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Men and women should be
together, it's the natural way,
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that kind of thing.
1:04:19
I'm not with you because of
what family, society, life...
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tried to in still in me
from day one.
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The way the world is,
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how seldom it is that you meet
that one person who...
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just gets you.
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It's so rare.
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My parents didn't
really have it.
1:04:45
There were no examples set for me in
the world of male-female relationships.
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And to cut one self off
from finding that person--
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to immediately halve your options
by eliminating the possibility...
1:04:59
of finding that one person
within your own gender--
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that just seemed stupid
to me.
1:05:05
So I didn't.
1:05:08
But then you came along.
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You, the one least likely.
I mean, you were a guy.
1:05:15
Still am.
1:05:18
And while I was falling for you
I put a ceiling on that,
1:05:23
because you were a guy.
1:05:26
Until I remembered why I opened the door
to women in the first place:
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To not limit the likelihood
of finding that one person who'd...
1:05:35
complement me so completely.
1:05:42
So, here we are.
1:05:45
I was thorough
when I looked for you.
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And I feel justified
lying in your arms...
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'cause I got here
on my own terms,
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and I have no question there was
someplace I didn't look.