1:29:01
- Yeah?
- What has happened...
1:29:04
- between you and your father?
- What do you mean?
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You've been so angry at him
ever since you came home.
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I don't know. I mean,
there's some stuff that...
1:29:15
I mean, it doesn't have
anything to do with you.
1:29:17
- Pretty soon he's all
you'lI have, you know.
- Please, Mom, stop.
1:29:19
No.
You stop.
1:29:21
He's gonna need you.
You're gonna need each other.
1:29:23
My God, you used to be so close.
What... The two of you are so alike.
1:29:27
- Please don't say that.
- Why?
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Because he's not perfect?
Because he's not the man...
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you thought he was?
1:29:36
No, I... No, I can't...
I can't talk about this with you.
1:29:41
- Come back here. Come on.
I want you to sit down here.
- I can't.
1:29:44
I want...
I want to talk to you. You sit there.
1:29:53
Now you listen to me because
I'm only going to say this once...
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and I probably
shouldn't say it at all.
1:30:00
There is nothing that you know
about your father that I don't know.
1:30:03
Nothing.
1:30:06
And understand better.
1:30:09
Okay?
1:30:12
You make concessions
when you're married a long time...
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that you don't believe you'll make
when you're beginning.
1:30:19
When you're young, you say,
"Oh, I'll never tolerate...
1:30:22
this or that or the other thing.,,
1:30:24
But time goes by, darling.
1:30:26
And when you've slept together
a thousand nights...
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and you've smelled like spit-up
from the babies when they're sick...
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and you've seen your body
droop and get soft...
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and some nights you just think,
"Oh, God, I'm not gonna put up
with it another minute".
1:30:39
But you wake up
in the next morning...
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and the kitchen smells
like coffee...
1:30:43
and the kids have their hair brushed
all by themselves...
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and you look at your husband,
and no...
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he's not the person
you thought he was.
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But he's your life.
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And the kids and the house
and everything that you do
is built around him.