1:20:00
when I'm dead,
you talk, I'll listen.
1:20:04
What if, uh, you know,
after you're, uh...
1:20:11
What if all this was just...
What if...
1:20:14
What if all this was
just wasted on me?
1:20:16
Well, you think
that could happen?
1:20:18
Well, out in the world...
you know, outside this room...
things aren't so clear.
1:20:23
Your wisdom and your aphorisms...
1:20:26
"Once you learn how to die,
you learn how to live."
1:20:28
What if you can't learn that?
1:20:31
What if you just want to run like hell
when you see death coming?
1:20:34
What if, uh, we're like
your father, you know?
1:20:37
What if we can't learn it
because we're not really like you?
1:20:41
- Yeah, but you are like me.
Everybody is.
- Nobody's like you.
1:20:47
And if it took your death
to teach me these things,
then I'd rather not learn 'em.
1:20:52
All the things you said, I'd give
'em back in one minute. [Sniffles]
1:20:57
- If this wasn't happening to you...
- It's happening.
1:21:00
- It's-It's going to happen.
- Yeah, well, I don't want it to happen.
1:21:04
I don't want you to die.
1:21:06
That poem you're always quoting,
"We have to love one another or die"?
1:21:10
We die anyway, don't we?
1:21:12
We learn to love somebody
and they die, or-or we die or it dies.
1:21:16
What's the point? Wha... What do we
learn really from all that suffering?
1:21:21
Hold.
1:21:27
[Sniffles]
I'm sorry.
1:21:31
I just can't accept it.
I don't want you to die.
1:21:36
I guess I flunked
the course, huh?
1:21:38
Death ends a life,
not a relationship.
1:21:46
Poor Mitch, you still don't know
how to say good-bye, do you?
1:21:51
Look at me.
1:21:54
[Sighs]
1:21:56
Don't you understand?
You touched me.