:42:02
I think I was the first woman
that he ever really dated.
:42:06
And he was very reluctant
to get married.
:42:09
I sort of said, "We've got
to do this," you know.
:42:12
I could be very
:42:14
So he says, "Well, all right. "
:42:17
Big mistake.
:42:23
We were delighted.
:42:25
She was effervescent, pretty.
:42:27
They seemed to be
very much in love.
:42:29
They seemed to be
very compatible.
:42:31
It had been a long
time in coming.
:42:33
My mother, "You're my oldest!
:42:35
Get married! I want
a grandchild," you know.
:42:37
My mother is sexually ignorant.
:42:41
As far as I'm concerned, she had
sex, I mean everyone thinks
:42:44
their parents only
had sex 3 times,
:42:45
you know for each
of their siblings.
:42:47
But with my mother,
I think it was true.
:42:50
And it was like, you know,
you read in a book
:42:53
how do you have sex,
and you start here,
:42:55
and then you do step 1,
step 2, step 3.
:42:58
And that's somewhat like what
sex was like with Arnold,
:43:02
Because I used to say to him,
:43:05
"It's called foreplay.
:43:08
It's supposed to be play.
:43:09
It's supposed to be fun. "
:43:12
And he treated it like work.
:43:14
Like this is what you're
supposed to do when you do it,
:43:18
like washing the dishes.
:43:21
If he was so much in the closet
and not living with her
:43:23
and not attracted,
where was she for 30 years?
:43:26
Why didn't she say, "Honey,
you're not having sex with me.
:43:28
I think I want a divorce. "
:43:30
Where was she?
:43:31
I don't think that's the case.
:43:32
Either they're
both crazy,
:43:34
which is a possibility,
:43:36
or
:43:40
or he was perfectly normal,
:43:42
based according to, you
know, by her standards.
:43:46
You're the one for me
:43:53
It was a difficult marriage
because of Elaine.
:43:57
She had her problems, and it
took a monumental amount