:44:02
of patience and love
and caring to handle it.
:44:06
It wasn't easy for him.
:44:08
It wasn't easy for the kids.
:44:11
But they were able
to live with it.
:44:14
She was the best mother
she knew how.
:44:16
She loved her kids,
and she loved her husband.
:44:18
She wasn't the warmest,
:44:20
most outgoing human being
in the world.
:44:24
When I had the first child,
I was just ecstatic,
:44:30
but I didn't know
how to do it.
:44:36
And I wasn't the most
:44:43
well-balanced person myself.
:44:45
You know, we all have
hang-ups, and
:44:49
that's my hang-up.
:44:52
Good things can never
happen to me, only bad.
:44:58
That's all the snapshots.
:45:00
I know.
:45:02
This whole thing is
all the snapshots.
:45:03
Did they go and they
looked through each one?
:45:05
They must have.
:45:06
This is ancient film.
:45:11
Holy shit.
:45:12
- Dad, what is it?
- Oh, my God, it's amazing.
:45:14
How did you get this?
This is great.
:45:15
- This is my Dad's.
- Who took it?
:45:17
My father.
:45:18
Dad, what's that a film of?
:45:19
This is a film of my sister.
:45:42
I had a sister.
:45:44
She died a year
before I was born.
:45:48
My brother knew her when
he was young, of course.
:45:52
And she died of blood poisoning.
:45:53
It was a horrible,
terrible, sudden death.
:45:56
And it destroyed the family.
:45:59
Arnold's parents divorced.