:39:00
would stop talking about my book.
:39:02
I have to admit I would probably
drop the environment.
:39:05
But, I would still...
:39:06
want to talk about,
:39:07
you know, magic and the Universe.
:39:09
I'd just wanna do it from a...
:39:11
What?
:39:12
... a hotel room.
:39:14
You know, in between
sessions of us...
:39:16
... wildly... fucking,
until we die.
:39:18
Wow!
:39:19
Well, why waste time with an hotel room?
:39:21
Why not do it right there...
on the bench?
:39:25
- No...
- Come here, come here...
:39:28
Ok
:39:29
We're not gonna die tonight.
:39:30
- Ok?
- All right, too bad...
:39:32
I'm sorry.
:39:33
That was an extreme example.
:39:35
- I'm sorry.
- Ok.
:39:37
What I... My point was, you know,
:39:39
to truly communicate with
people is very hard to do
:39:42
I know, I mean most of our...
most of our day to day exchanges
:39:45
Yeah, I know, I mean...
:39:46
not to bring everything back to sex
:39:49
But, why not?
:39:49
No, no, this example,
:39:50
this friend of mine, she...
:39:51
she was talking about she
and her boyfriend, problems at bed...
:39:55
Right...
:39:56
... and how when,
they had been dating for a year,
:39:58
she started telling him what
he could do to please her more.
:40:01
And it totally freaked him out!
:40:03
- Why?
- Totally.
:40:03
Well, he felt all threatened
and he thought he was a bad lover.
:40:07
Maybe she shouldn't
have waited so long.
:40:08
- You know, after an year...
- Well, yeah, but,
:40:09
men are so easily offended!
:40:11
Oh, what, more than women, you think?
:40:12
- Oh, definitely on that subject!
- You think so?
:40:14
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
:40:16
Well, maybe it's because, you know...
:40:18
Men are...
:40:20
easier to...
:40:21
you know,
:40:22
... to please.
:40:22
- Well, I don't know...
- Yeah, they are, they definitely...
:40:24
definitely.
:40:25
Anyway, this friend of mine,
she was telling me that,
:40:28
next time she dates another man,
:40:29
she's gonna make
a little questionnaire,
:40:32
about what they like and dislike,
for the event...
:40:34
Like written down, or out loud?
:40:35
Yeah, yeah, written down,
mostly written down.
:40:37
But it wouldn't be just...
:40:39
you know, yes or no,
:40:40
it would be a little more
complex than that.
:40:41
Like for example, if the question is:
:40:43
"Are you into S and M?"
:40:44
The answer could be "No, but..."
:40:47
"... a good spanking
once in a while, doesn't hurt."
:40:49
- Right?
- Right. Or like:
:40:51
"Do you like talking dirty in bed?"
:40:54
That kind of thing?
:40:55
Yeah, yeah, yeah, but not just like...
:40:56
any dirty talk.
:40:57
Just like: "What specific word
would you like to hear?"