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Jimmy Cagney type of guy.
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All of a sudden he starts to cry.
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"I'm impotent."
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Forty years...
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of his terrible secret.
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Something broken.
Poor kid couldn't stop crying.
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- I feel moved now just talking about it.
- It was beautiful.
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And he was not miraculously cured.
Because it doesn't work that way.
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But just being able to say it out,
to a roomful of relatively unknown people...
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has got to be a way,
a beginning, to dealing with it.
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I must say something now.
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Which if I did not say it...
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I would be playing games with myself,
with us.
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What was that look before?
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- What look?
- You know.
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- The one to Alice, just before.
- You mean that look?
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- I didn't see the look.
- It was a put-down look.
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- Now, wait a minute.
- Come on.
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- That wasn't a put-down look.
- No, it's okay if it was.
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- It wasn't a put-down look.
- It's okay if it was, that's my whole...
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- It wasn't a put-down look!
- No, that's my whole point.
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If you just get it out, just deal with it...
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or deal with me,
or with Carol, or with Alice...
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- It was what it was. I dealt with Alice.
- But you didn't deal with Bob.
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Come on, you didn't even see the look.
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Come on, Alice. I know that look.
Bob and I do it all the time.
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No "Oh, ho ho."
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That's what we used to do.
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That's what we are trying
not to do ever again.
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Ever. To the people that we love.
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- And we love you.
- We know. I know that.
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We really do, you know.
We really do love you.
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And we really do love you!
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We love you, too.
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But we are not always
totally honest with each other.
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- Yes, we are! I have never lied to you.
- Alice, do you like my outfit?
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I love it.
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They don't want to know what you think,
they want to know what you feel.
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I feel...
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that your outfit is an important contribution
to an otherwise dull society.