:13:01
She's saying we failed completely.
:13:04
- That's way too extreme.
- Yeah, maybe just 40 percent.
:13:08
Mom, you can't quantify it like that.
I mean, what difference does it make...
:13:11
if it's 40 percent or 60 percent?
:13:13
Sixty percent?
:13:15
Why is everybody getting
so serious all of a sudden?
:13:18
I thought we were gonna talk
about buying new carpeting...
:13:20
getting rid of this crap,
putting in the wall-to-wall.
:13:23
Life is so rich, so full.
:13:25
You have a wife,
a child, a good job.
:13:29
Why are you doing this?
:13:31
If I could pop in here for a second,
I think that what Mel is trying
to communicate here...
:13:36
is that no matter where we are in our
lives, especially if we're adopted...
:13:40
we can't help but feel
that there's something missing--
:13:43
that there's something out there
that's going to make us feel...
:13:47
complete, give us a sense of belonging,
connectedness if you will.
:13:51
This woman strikes me
as being very dangerous.
:13:55
It's understandable
that you would find me threatening.
:13:57
Why don't you psychoanalyze me?
I'd love to hear this. Go ahead.
:14:00
I'm, uh, abrasive,
pushy, defensive.
:14:04
My husband is, uh, food-phobic,
passive-aggressive.
:14:07
- Huh? Come on. Come on.
- Look, the point is, we're going
to San Diego in the morning, and--
:14:10
What about your father's 60th birthday?
:14:13
Well, if you'd let me finish what
I'm saying, I'd say that we have every
intention of coming back for it.
:14:17
You are aware that they have a very big
car theft problem in San Diego.
:14:20
- No, I wasn't aware of that.
- Oh, yes, very big.
:14:23
I hadn't heard anything
about that either.
:14:25
They bump you,
and when you stop...
:14:28
they mutilate you
and then take your car.
:14:30
- It happened to Art Sackhein.
- What?
:14:32
- They killed Art Sackhein?
- Oh, don't be ridiculous.
:14:35
They bumped him and took his car.
Nobody said anything about killing.
:14:38
- You said mutilate.
- Anyway--
- Please.
:14:42
Enjoy yourself. I understand
they have a lovely zoo in San Diego.
:14:49
- Are you ready for San Diego?
- Yeah!
- Yes.
:14:52
- God, you look beautiful.
- So do you.
:14:55
Oh, thanks.
You know, maybe I'll just--
:14:57
I'll run upstairs really quickly
and change, 'cause I don't think--
:14:59
- Don't be silly. You look adorable.
- You look so elegant.
- Honey.