:55:00
That´s not very symbolic.
:55:02
It´s kind of spelled out.
:55:05
So...
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it sucks.
:55:08
Hans!
:55:09
No, it doesn´t suck,
it´s just that it´s not really...
:55:13
You know, it´s a literal painting.
It´s not symbolic.
:55:16
Which is fine.
It´s literal.
:55:18
Right. Just literally sucks.
:55:21
No.
:55:22
No, you´re right.
It just symbolically sucks.
:55:31
Certainly isn´t
very literal anymore, is it?
:55:35
It´s symbolic.
:55:40
Do you believe in...
:55:42
a big love?
:55:44
Is that a serious question?
:55:50
Look...
:55:52
when I was 16...
:55:54
I was in love with a guy, William.
:55:57
I was completely absorbed by him.
:56:01
I felt like I had no sense of autonomy,
no sense of being.
:56:05
I almost didn´t exist without him.
:56:06
I couldn´t sleep, eat. I couldn´t
do anything unless he was around.
:56:11
It was like I was just the same person.
:56:14
And I thought that
was being madly in love...
:56:17
or "the big love" as you´d say.
:56:19
I read an article recently...
:56:21
about how overrated
this sense of falling in love is.
:56:25
People just seem to think
it´s all that initial thing.
:56:28
The flowers, the explosions and...
:56:31
that excitement you see
when you see someone.
:56:34
And then what?
:56:36
No one knows how to maintain that.
:56:38
That´s what the big love is.
:56:40
The capacity to reinvent
the relationship...
:56:44
expand and maintain the feeling.
:56:46
And not feel that if you don´t have it,
then it´s not working.
:56:49
You walk out and find it elsewhere.
:56:53
No, that big love you´re talking about,
I think...
:56:56
that´s just for lovers.