:56:01
I felt like I had no sense of autonomy,
no sense of being.
:56:05
I almost didn´t exist without him.
:56:06
I couldn´t sleep, eat. I couldn´t
do anything unless he was around.
:56:11
It was like I was just the same person.
:56:14
And I thought that
was being madly in love...
:56:17
or "the big love" as you´d say.
:56:19
I read an article recently...
:56:21
about how overrated
this sense of falling in love is.
:56:25
People just seem to think
it´s all that initial thing.
:56:28
The flowers, the explosions and...
:56:31
that excitement you see
when you see someone.
:56:34
And then what?
:56:36
No one knows how to maintain that.
:56:38
That´s what the big love is.
:56:40
The capacity to reinvent
the relationship...
:56:44
expand and maintain the feeling.
:56:46
And not feel that if you don´t have it,
then it´s not working.
:56:49
You walk out and find it elsewhere.
:56:53
No, that big love you´re talking about,
I think...
:56:56
that´s just for lovers.
:57:02
So...
:57:03
you have some...
:57:05
feelings on this issue.
:57:10
Deep-seated feelings.
:57:14
I need to tell you,
you went crazy earlier.
:57:19
Sometimes I feel things, Lucy.
:57:22
What you feel, I treat.
:57:32
Do you feel that?
:57:37
Maybe.
:57:41
Flesh...
:57:44
is symbolic.
:57:47
Love...
:57:50
is flesh.
:57:53
And flesh...
:57:56
equals...
:57:58
symbolic.