:38:03
Basically, you
taught my child...
:38:06
...that I am a loser...
:38:08
...who doesn't really
care about her pain.
:38:11
- That's not what I was trying to do.
- That's what you did.
:38:15
Did you think I didn't have some
dirty words for that little putz?
:38:18
That I couldn't figure
out some low blows?
:38:20
You weren't
passing them out.
:38:22
I believe, in a crisis, you have an
opportunity to learn something.
:38:25
That's deep.
:38:27
It was a lie.
:38:29
Winning without dignity
or grace is not winning.
:38:33
She has to figure out
who she is...
:38:34
...so she can stand up to
peer pressure, so that...
:38:37
...so that she can
steer her own course.
:38:38
She wasn't steering
her own course.
:38:41
She was steering yours.
:38:43
That's what parenting
is all about, little girl.
:38:46
They are pleading for you to tell
them how to do the right thing.
:38:50
Sure as hell, that's
what you've done.
:38:52
And the next time something happens,
and the stakes are really high...
:38:55
...she's gonna
look back on this...
:38:56
...and she's gonna remember how
easy it was and how good it felt.
:38:59
And she'll stand up for herself.
Dear God, what have I done?
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You have turned
her into you.
:39:08
That's what this is about.
:39:11
That's all this is about.
:39:12
How would you know
what this is about?
:39:15
You haven't been here
from the beginning...
:39:16
...worrying every
minute of every day...
:39:18
...that the decisions
you're making...
:39:20
...are going to shape the
people they're going to be.
:39:22
And you are not what
I want my children to be.
:39:30
I don't want that, either.
:39:34
This isn't about me
or you. It's about them.
:39:38
And believe it or
not, I am trying!
:39:43
And I do have
their very...
:39:46
...best interests at heart.