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"Maybe there is another version
of my life, of myself...
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... that's a happier one. "
1:03:22
BuIIshit.
1:03:25
"yosseI Iooked into Minnie's eyes
and feIt...
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...nothing.
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For two years they'd been apart.
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And now, as she stepped off the boat...
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...he reaIized he was
Iooking into the eyes...
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...of a stranger.
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A girI he no Ionger knew.
1:03:50
He had become an American.
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And she was stiII the poor...
1:04:02
...unaffectionate...
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...daughter...
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...of a bIind Lithuanian
vioIin maker. "
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It's fear. It was aII about fear.
Fear's what kept them together.
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This whoIe time I've ideaIized
my grandparents' marriage.
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But this was not the Iove of the ages.
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The two stayed together
because they were terrified.
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Fear of IoneIiness, fear of faiIure,
fear of the unknown.
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Sure, fear. That's the main
motivator for everything.
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That and guiIt are the two emotions
that keep a society humming.
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you and RacheI stay together
because of fear?
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-In a word, yes.
-you're okay with that?
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In three words, yes and no.
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See, it's not that simpIe.
you're Iooking for cIear-cut answers.
1:04:47
In reaIity, there's nothing cIear-cut.
Life is not cIear-cut.
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Life is gray.
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For instance:
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What do you see right here?
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-What are you asking me?
-I'm asking you, what do you see?