1:04:02
...unaffectionate...
1:04:04
...daughter...
1:04:07
...of a bIind Lithuanian
vioIin maker. "
1:04:12
It's fear. It was aII about fear.
Fear's what kept them together.
1:04:16
This whoIe time I've ideaIized
my grandparents' marriage.
1:04:19
But this was not the Iove of the ages.
1:04:22
The two stayed together
because they were terrified.
1:04:25
Fear of IoneIiness, fear of faiIure,
fear of the unknown.
1:04:28
Sure, fear. That's the main
motivator for everything.
1:04:32
That and guiIt are the two emotions
that keep a society humming.
1:04:36
you and RacheI stay together
because of fear?
1:04:38
-In a word, yes.
-you're okay with that?
1:04:40
In three words, yes and no.
1:04:43
See, it's not that simpIe.
you're Iooking for cIear-cut answers.
1:04:47
In reaIity, there's nothing cIear-cut.
Life is not cIear-cut.
1:04:50
Life is gray.
1:04:52
For instance:
1:04:55
What do you see right here?
1:04:59
-What are you asking me?
-I'm asking you, what do you see?
1:05:02
I see your ass.
1:05:04
That's what you think you see.
But in reaIity, there is no ass.
1:05:10
What the f--?
What are you teIIing me?
1:05:13
There is no ass, just the fatty part
at the top of each Ieg...
1:05:17
...that is butted up
against each other.
1:05:20
Hence the word "butt. "
1:05:22
See, essentiaIIy...
1:05:24
...what we're deaIing with here is
just a continuation of the Ieg.
1:05:27
Okay, aII right, now you Iost me.
1:05:30
It's aII iIIusions.
There is no such thing as an ass.
1:05:34
Just Iike there's no such thing as
the perfect marriage, job or chiId.
1:05:38
The whoIe notion of staying together
and Iiving happiIy ever after...
1:05:43
...aII iIIusions.
1:05:44
you're saying you don't beIieve
in everIasting Iove?
1:05:48
you're seeing the ass again
and not the tops of the Iegs.
1:05:53
Love is just Iust in disguise.
And Iust fades.
1:05:56
So you damn weII better be
with someone who can stand you.