:54:01
Happy Birthday to you
:54:05
Happy Birthday to you
:54:10
Is that a real ice cream?
:54:14
That's what's so odd about it.
:54:17
They had this idealized image
:54:21
of this father as being this
saint-like person
:54:25
this Santa Claus,
Messiah, you know.
:54:30
And professionals
in the field say that
:54:33
oh, they have this idea
that children identify
:54:38
with the abusive parent.
:54:42
When I was about a year or two,
my parents separated.
:54:47
And what did I do?
:54:49
"My father is wonderful.
:54:51
My mother is terrible. "
:54:56
The truth is
my father was a rat
:54:59
just like David's father.
:55:00
My father walked out.
:55:02
This is not wonderful.
:55:03
This is being a rat.
:55:05
My mother was a nag.
:55:08
Well, I mean, this is true
:55:10
but look, she stayed with me,
she took care of me.
:55:15
So people's visions
are distorted.
:55:21
I never felt angry at my dad.
:55:22
My dad had nothing
to do with this.
:55:24
Someone knocks on the door
:55:25
and accuses you for a crime
you didn't commit
:55:28
you gotta attack
:55:30
attack your attackers
and do what you can.
:55:33
And that's all it was.
:55:35
It had nothing to do with
:55:36
there was nothing else
that was involved at all.
:55:39
We were talking about
honoring and respecting.
:55:42
Yeah, but, yeah,
talk about honor and
:55:43
do you honor and respect
your husband?
:55:45
That's why
I don't talk to you.
:55:46
I said I did honor
and respect my husband.
:55:48
Oh, Okay.
:55:49
But you don't like
that answer.
:55:50
No I don't.
I don't believe it, no.
:55:53
Ask your father.
:55:55
Do I honor and respect you?
:55:57
Do you object to my handling