:55:00
My father walked out.
:55:02
This is not wonderful.
:55:03
This is being a rat.
:55:05
My mother was a nag.
:55:08
Well, I mean, this is true
:55:10
but look, she stayed with me,
she took care of me.
:55:15
So people's visions
are distorted.
:55:21
I never felt angry at my dad.
:55:22
My dad had nothing
to do with this.
:55:24
Someone knocks on the door
:55:25
and accuses you for a crime
you didn't commit
:55:28
you gotta attack
:55:30
attack your attackers
and do what you can.
:55:33
And that's all it was.
:55:35
It had nothing to do with
:55:36
there was nothing else
that was involved at all.
:55:39
We were talking about
honoring and respecting.
:55:42
Yeah, but, yeah,
talk about honor and
:55:43
do you honor and respect
your husband?
:55:45
That's why
I don't talk to you.
:55:46
I said I did honor
and respect my husband.
:55:48
Oh, Okay.
:55:49
But you don't like
that answer.
:55:50
No I don't.
I don't believe it, no.
:55:53
Ask your father.
:55:55
Do I honor and respect you?
:55:57
Do you object to my handling
:56:00
do you have any objection
in my relationship with you?
:56:05
Do you like it
when she calls you slime?
:56:08
She did.
:56:09
Did you like it
when she did?
:56:11
OK.
:56:12
Did you like it when
:56:13
The other cases that
I've written about
:56:15
those families
have been much stronger.
:56:18
First of all,
they've started from
:56:20
a monolithic feeling
of innocence
:56:23
which didn't exist
in this family
:56:24
because of Arnold's pedophilia.
:56:27
And they just buckled down
:56:30
and everybody gets behind
the defendant
:56:33
the accused family member.
:56:34
People quit their jobs.
:56:35
And, you know
:56:37
people were all sitting around
the kitchen table
:56:39
for the next 3 years with
staplers and Xerox machines
:56:43
and they're working on
the defense.
:56:46
And then when the defendant
is convicted
:56:48
they're working on the appeal
:56:50
and all family conflict
is submerged.
:56:54
Why don't you try once
to be supportive of me?
:56:58
Well, I'll tell you why.
:56:59
Because we all started at
the beginning of this thing